It's Okay To Be Selfish Sometimes...

& I mean this in the way of taking time to yourself, for yourself, to better yourself. You do not have to always compromise yourself to please other people. IT'S OKAY TO BE UNAVAILABLE SOME TIMES! The people who are truly supportive of you and genuinely want to see you do good, will understand when you can't always talk to them or see them because they are, or should be, trying to work on themselves also.


Take time to do things that you've always wanted to do. Read those books you want, pick up a new hobby, workout or do yoga; whatever the case may be, take time to do things that will feed your mind, body, and soul! On that note, It's also okay to miss calls/texts, that can wait, because you just want to be alone for the day. Don't let anyone tell you any different. 

I know, it's easier said than done because the second I moved away from home, I was lost. I had not taken the proper time to myself, to learn myself or to find new hobbies. It effected me in such a negative way because I was so used to be under people all the time. But because I did take that time, I'm glad that I made that move, because it has taught me to fend for myself, and find my independence; my likes and dislikes, what I wanted to do, and actually doing those things. If I had not started finding myself, I would not have finally created my blog to share with you, I would not have ever realized how much I love practicing yoga, I definitely would have never known I could do my own hair lol But I took the time to myself and started enjoying being alone despite always thinking that being alone was a bad thing.

So, please take time to find yourself and learn yourself more because it truly gives you a deeper perspective on all that life has to offer.